Muslims should live like brothers.
Abu BakrRead
I've come, even as a feminist, to dread the phrase 'female friendship,' because it tends to signal overdetermined relationships.
Interpretation
The phrase 'female friendship' can imply preconceived notions that may limit the authenticity of women's relationships.
In this quote, Michelle Dean expresses her concern that the term 'female friendship' carries social expectations and stereotypes that can undermine the genuine nature of women's bonds. She suggests that labeling friendships in such a way can lead to a narrow interpretation of these relationships, causing them to be viewed through a critical lens rather than appreciating their complexity and individuality.
In practice
During a women's conference discussing the dynamics of female support networks.
Muslims should live like brothers.
My own approach has always been to push intense emotions down and attempt to deal with them later. When I was younger, I was terrified to express anger because it would often kick-start a horrible reaction in the men in my life.
The key to fostering connection in the face of a 'no' is always hearing 'yes' to something else.
I never met a man that I didn't like.
There cannot be peace where there is not trust; there cannot be freedom where there is not loyalty
But why should you be interested in me?" Good question. I can’t explain it myself right this moment. But maybe – just maybe – if we start getting together and talking, after a while something like Francis Lai’s soundtrack music will start playing in the background, and a whole slew of concrete reasons why I’m interested in you will line up out of nowhere. With luck, it might even snow for us.
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