I've often said that the most important thing you can give your children is wings. Because, you're not gonna always be able to bring food to the nest. You're... sometimes... they're gonna have to be able to fly by themselves.
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I've had to come to grips with a God that fits my own experience, which is, my God could not be offering protection and not have protected my boy.
Interpretation
This quote reflects the struggle of reconciling personal beliefs about God with painful experiences.
Elizabeth Edwards expresses the deep conflict she faces in her belief system, grappling with the idea of a protective deity while dealing with the tragic loss of her son. This statement highlights the personal nature of faith and the challenges that arise when one's experiences seem at odds with traditional religious beliefs about divine protection and intervention.
In practice
During a support group meeting for bereaved parents, this quote can resonate deeply and spark discussion about faith and grief.
I've often said that the most important thing you can give your children is wings. Because, you're not gonna always be able to bring food to the nest. You're... sometimes... they're gonna have to be able to fly by themselves.
Part of resilience is deciding to make yourself miserable over something that matters, or deciding to make yourself miserable over something that doesn't matter.
I'm not a victim - I never want to be perceived that way.
I certainly have a lot to lament, as do we all, everybody has their griefs. But the griefs we can fix, shouldn't we go around fixing them?
... all things are possible if you are willing to put yourself on the line. You cannot stand back and hope for the best. You have to act.
If I had lost a leg, I would tell them, instead of a boy, no one would ever ask me if I was 'over it'. They would ask me how I was doing learning to walk without my leg. I was learning to walk and to breathe and to live without Wade. And what I was learning is that it was never going to be the life I had before.
One will seldom go wrong if one attributes extreme actions to vanity, average ones to habit, and pretty ones to fear.
We must make the building of a free society once more an intellectual adventure, a deed of courage. Unless we can make the philosophic foundations of a free society once more a living intellectual issue, and its implementation a task which challenges the ingenuity and imagination of our liveliest minds, the prospects of freedom are indeed dark. But if we can regain that belief in the power of ideas which was the mark of liberalism at its best, the battle is not lost.
exile is strangely compelling to think about but terrible to experience. It is the unhealable rift forced between a human being and a native place, between the self and its true home: its essential sadness can never be surmounted. And while it is true that literature and history contain heroic, romantic, glorious, even triumphant episodes in an exileβs life, these are no more than efforts meant to overcome the crippling sorrow of estrangement.
And I say also this. I do not think the forest would be so bright, nor the water so warm, nor love so sweet, if there were no danger in the lakes.
The joke of our time is the suicide of intention.
There does, in fact, appear to be a plan.
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