QuoteProject
But I've grown thoughtful now. And you have lost Your early-morning freshness of surprise At being so utterly mine: you've learned to fear The gloomy, stricken places in my soul, And the occasional ghosts that haunt my gaze.
Siegfried Sassoon
ShareWTF𝕏

Interpretation

What this quote means

This quote reflects on the evolution of intimacy and understanding in a relationship, where initial freshness gives way to deeper awareness and fears.

In this quote, Siegfried Sassoon captures the poignant shift in a relationship where initial excitement and discovery is replaced with a deeper, more contemplative understanding of each other's complexities. The speaker acknowledges that their partner has moved from a state of innocent surprise and love to one where fears and hidden pains are recognized, indicating a more profound yet challenging connection formed over time.

Themes

RelationshipsIntimacyAwarenessLoveFear

In practice

Example use cases

In a discussion about the complexities of love, one might use this quote to illustrate how relationships deepen over time.

More from Siegfried Sassoon

Let my soul, a shining tree, Silver branches lift towards thee, Where on a hallowed winter's night The clear-eyed angels may alight.
Siegfried SassoonRead
EVERYONE suddenly burst out singing; And I was filled with such delight As prisoned birds must find in freedom, Winging wildly across the white Orchards and dark-green fields; on—on—and out of sight. Everyone’s voice was suddenly lifted; And beauty came like the setting sun: My heart was shaken with tears; and horror Drifted away ... O, but Everyone Was a bird; and the song was wordless; the singing will never be done.
Siegfried SassoonRead
I am a soldier, convinced that I am acting on behalf of soldiers.
Siegfried SassoonRead
Soldiers are dreamers; when the guns begin they think of firelit homes, clean beds, and wives.
Siegfried SassoonRead
The dead...are more real than the living because they are complete.
Siegfried SassoonRead
For it is humanly certain that most of us remember very little of what we have read. To open almost any book a second time is to be reminded that we had forgotten well-nigh everything that the writer told us. Parting from the narrator and his narrative, we retain only a fading impression; and he, as it were, takes the book away from us and tucks it under his arm.
Siegfried SassoonRead

Similar quotes

Home is where the people who live there need me to come home to them, and worry about me when I'm gone. There's no such place on this earth, no matter how far I drive.
Orson Scott CardRead
I believe that it is impossible for two individuals not committed to their own and each other’s well being to sustain a healthy and enduring relationship.
Bell HooksRead
We have a stake in one another...what binds us together is greater than what drives us apart.
Barack ObamaRead
Hassan and I fed from the same breasts. We took our first steps on the same lawn in the same yard. And, under the same roof, we spoke our first words. Mine was Baba. His was Amir. My name. Looking back on it now, I think the foundation for what happened in the winter of 1975 —and all that followed— was already laid in those first words.
Khaled HosseiniRead
The hearts of women are like those little pieces of furniture with secret hiding - places, full of drawers fitted into each other; you go a lot of trouble, break your nails, and in the bottom find some withered flower, a few grains of dust - or emptiness!
Gustave FlaubertRead
Being trans, I've grown up with the understanding that most women are born girls, yet some are born boys. And most men are born boys, yet some are born girls. And if you're ready for this, some people are born girls or boys and choose to identify outside our society's binary system, making them genderqueer.
Janet MockRead

A little wisdom, now and then

Subscribe for the occasional hand-picked quote. No noise.