If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Maya AngelouRead
I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.
Interpretation
The way you make others feel is more impactful than your words or actions.
This quote by Maya Angelou highlights the importance of emotional connections in human interactions. It suggests that while the specifics of what one says or does may fade from memory, the feelings that one evokes in others are lasting and significant, emphasizing the value of empathy and kindness in relationships.
In practice
This quote can be used in a motivational speech about building strong relationships.
If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
I find it interesting that the meanest life, the poorest existence, is attributed to God's will, but as human beings become more affluent, as their living standard and style begin to ascend the material scale, God descends the scale of responsibility at commensurate speed.
The white American man makes the white American woman maybe not superfluous but just a little kind of decoration. Not really important to turning around the wheels of the state. Well the black American woman has never been able to feel that way. No black American man at any time in our history in the United States has been able to feel that he didn't need that black woman right against him, shoulder to shoulder-in that cotton field, on the auction block, in the ghetto, wherever.
I dreamt we walked together along the shore. We made satisfying small talk and laughed. This morning I found sand in my shoe and a seashell in my pocket. Was I only dreaming?
I know that I'm not the easiest person to live with. The challenge I put on myself is so great that the person I live with feels himself challenged. I bring a lot to bear, and I don't know how not to.
I think Clinton, after getting into office and into Washington, was shocked at being bludgeoned. So he spent time trying to be all things to all people - one way guaranteed not to be successful or respected in a lion's den. You can't just play around with all those big cats - you've got to take somebody on.
The heart of another is a dark forest, always, no matter how close it has been to one's own.
Human beings need to watch out for reasonless niceness too. It's never reasonless and its reason's not usually nice.
To me, the thing that is worse than death is betrayal. You see, I could conceive death, but I could not conceive betrayal.
Sometimes, we get numb to the fact that people get sent away. We don't see where they are; we say they are 'doing time,' and you really don't know what that is.
I was born Roman, and I'll die Roman. I'll never leave this team or my city.
The words we read and words we write never say exactly what we mean. The people we love are never just as we desire them. The two symbola never perfectly match. Eros is in between.
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