You will come to know things that can only be known with the wisdom of age and the grace of years. Most of those things will have to do with forgiveness.
Cheryl StrayedRead
You don't have to get a job that makes others feel comfortable about what they perceive as your success. You don't have to explain what your plan to do with your life. You don't have to justify your education by demonstrating its financial rewards. You don't have to maintain an impeccable credit score. Anyone who expects you to do any of those things has no sense of history of economics or science or the arts.
Interpretation
What this quote means
You are not obligated to conform to societal expectations of success and justification.
This quote by Cheryl Strayed emphasizes the importance of individual fulfillment over external validation. It encourages people to pursue their own definitions of success without feeling the need to justify their choices to others, highlighting the diverse paths one can take in life that may not align with conventional standards of achievement.
Themes
SuccessIndividualitySelf-FulfillmentValidationChoices
In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech about following one's dreams despite societal pressure.
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