No one who can rise before dawn three hundred sixty days a year fails to make his family rich.
Malcolm GladwellRead
I remember as a kid watching one of the Olympic games, and I was cheering for a big track athlete. He was the favorite to win, and he lost. I realized in that moment the pain he felt was so much greater than the pain that those who never thought they were going to win would have felt had they lost.
Interpretation
The pain of loss is more intense for those with high expectations of victory.
Malcolm Gladwell reflects on the emotional experience of failure, particularly for those who are favored to succeed. He suggests that the disappointment felt by someone who was expected to win is more profound than that felt by those with lower expectations, underscoring the weight of pressure and aspirations attached to success.
In practice
A coach could use this quote to inspire athletes to manage their expectations and understand the depth of emotional investment in competition.
No one who can rise before dawn three hundred sixty days a year fails to make his family rich.
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Hard work is a prison sentence only if it does not have meaning.
Did you ever hear the Oriental proverb, "The dogs bark but the caravan passes on"? Let them bark, Scarlett. I fear nothing will stop your caravan.
Weak men wait for opportunities; strong men make them.
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Let us develop the resources of our land, call forth its powers, build up its institutions, promote all its great interests, and see whether we also, in our day and generation, may not perform something worthy to be remembered.
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