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I remember as a kid watching one of the Olympic games, and I was cheering for a big track athlete. He was the favorite to win, and he lost. I realized in that moment the pain he felt was so much greater than the pain that those who never thought they were going to win would have felt had they lost.
Malcolm Gladwell
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What this quote means

The pain of loss is more intense for those with high expectations of victory.

Malcolm Gladwell reflects on the emotional experience of failure, particularly for those who are favored to succeed. He suggests that the disappointment felt by someone who was expected to win is more profound than that felt by those with lower expectations, underscoring the weight of pressure and aspirations attached to success.

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In practice

Example use cases

A coach could use this quote to inspire athletes to manage their expectations and understand the depth of emotional investment in competition.

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