When people say, 'There aren't enough women on panel shows,' the answer is to make the host a woman.
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I have to say, I have to tell you that my kids had a most marvelous time having two moms. When my daughter was at university, she got flu. And both mums rushed to be with her. And we were both looking after her and making soup and tidying up. And one of her friends came in and went, 'Two mums? Not fair.'
Interpretation
Having two mothers can provide a loving and supportive environment for children.
This quote reflects the joy and support that a child can experience from having two parental figures, highlighting the strength of love and care in non-traditional family structures. The anecdote illustrates the unity and collaborative effort of both mothers in caring for their child, demonstrating that love and support can come from diverse familial arrangements, while also addressing societal perceptions and biases.
In practice
In a discussion on parenting styles, this quote exemplifies the love and support that diverse families can provide.
When people say, 'There aren't enough women on panel shows,' the answer is to make the host a woman.
There are panel shows that struggle to get women on, and that's because the women feel marginalised and stupid and in the edit are often seen just laughing at the boys and not saying anything at all even though I know for a fact in the recording they were clever. I'm not shy at speaking up, but even I, on those shows, am silenced.
Women are not allowed to be polymaths; we're only allowed to do single maths.
My parents raised me and my siblings in an armor of advice, an ocean of alarm bells so someone wouldn't steal the breath from our lungs, so that they wouldn't make a memory of this skin.
There must always be a struggle between a father and son, while one aims at power and the other at independence.
My mother was a full-time mother. She didn't have much of her own career, her own life, her own experiences... everything was for her children. I will never be as good a mother as she was. She was just grace incarnate. She was the most generous, loving - she's better than me.
My husband's a pediatrician, so he and I talk about parenting all the time. You can't raise children who have more shame resilience than you do.
My own eight children all march to the beat of their inner music, and in some cases, it is definitely far away from what I hear. I've had to honor their instincts and their choices, and merely guided them out of harm's way until they could be their own guides.
And I think my daughter knows now that our life is split in two. Half of the year is spent with Mommy working and the other is spent with no work in sight.
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