If you're playing a poker game and you look around the table and and can't tell who the sucker is, it's you.
Paul NewmanRead
It's kind of like those little electric bumper cars where you drive around and see if you can hit the other guy. That's exactly what the country is like now. You no longer have the sense of community. Of loyalty. It's lost its sense of group. It has nothing to do with leadership.
Interpretation
The quote reflects on the loss of community and loyalty in society.
Paul Newman compares contemporary society to electric bumper cars, suggesting that interactions have become superficial and competitive rather than cooperative and communal. He stresses that this breakdown of shared values, such as loyalty and a sense of belonging, is a serious concern and is not merely a leadership issue, but a deeper societal problem.
In practice
In a discussion on social change, one might quote Newman to emphasize the loss of community in modern life.
If you're playing a poker game and you look around the table and and can't tell who the sucker is, it's you.
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So we gave up. I'd finally had enough of chasing after a ghost who did not want to be seen. We'd failed, maybe, but some mysteries aren't meant to be solved.
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