I get kind of, um, bored by all the sexuality and gender labels because I feel like that's where the problem comes in, when people feel that they need to have these particular identities. If you didn't have these labels, and you just acted on how you genuinely felt at any point, then you wouldn't have anything to contend with.
Interpretation
The quote suggests that labels around sexuality and gender can create unnecessary complications and that authentic feelings should guide behavior.
Tig Notaro expresses a viewpoint that the labels associated with sexuality and gender can be limiting and contribute to societal problems. Instead of adhering to these identities, she advocates for acting based on genuine feelings, implying that by removing these labels, individuals might experience greater freedom and authenticity in their interactions and relationships.
In practice
This quote could be used in a discussion about gender fluidity at a pride event.
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