I can never drive my car over a bridge without thinking of suicide. I can never look at a lake or an ocean without thinking of suicide.
Charles BukowskiRead
the last cigarettes are smoked, the loaves are sliced, and lest this be taken for wry sorrow, drown the spider in wine. you are much more than simply dead: I am a dish for your ashes, I am a fist for your vanished air. the most terrible thing about life is finding it gone.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote reflects on the inevitability of death and the profound sense of loss that accompanies it.
Charles Bukowski poignantly captures the complexity of life and death in this quote, expressing the despair of losing a loved one while also acknowledging the beauty that can be found in memories. The imagery he uses evokes both sorrow and a celebration of life, suggesting that even in death, the connections we share with others remain impactful, transforming grief into an appreciation for those who have passed.
Themes
LifeDeathLossSorrowMemories
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be shared at a memorial service to reflect on the beauty of memories.
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