It gave me a lot of pleasure and pride that 90 percent of the crew for 'Monsoon Wedding,' and most of my film, are women. We get the work done, you know, much lesser play of ego... And I really believe in harmony, I believe in working in a spirit of egolessness and that the film is bigger than all of us.
I think there's a level of ignorance, when, in the callowness of youth, you imagine that you are inventing the world for the first time. You imagine that your parents don't know what it feels like to fall in love.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote highlights the tendency of youth to believe they are the first to experience certain emotions and challenges, overlooking the wisdom of previous generations.
Mira Nair's quote captures a common youthful mindset that often underestimates the experiences and knowledge of older generations, especially parents. It suggests that in the naivety of youth, individuals may feel as though their personal discoveries and feelings, such as falling in love, are entirely new and unique to them, disregarding the shared human experience that spans across ages. This sense of callowness can lead to a disconnect between generations, where the wisdom and experiences of those who came before are not fully appreciated or understood.
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Example use cases
In a discussion about generational wisdom, this quote can be used to remind younger people that their parents have significant life experiences.
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