Social reality is so complicated that, once you join one team or the other, you become specialized in detecting certain patterns, but you become blind to other patterns.
When I think about life on Earth, there should not be a species like us. And if there was, we should be out in the jungle killing each other in small groups. That's what you should expect.
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What this quote means
The quote reflects on the improbable existence of human civilization and our capabilities for both cooperation and conflict.
Jonathan Haidt expresses a profound thought about humanity's existence, suggesting that given the natural order, humans, as a species, should not have developed the complex societies we live in today. He contrasts our current state of civilization with the expectations of survivalism, where one would assume we would be fighting for survival in small, warring groups rather than thriving in large, cooperative societies. This statement invites reflection on the nature of human beings and the paradox of our progress.
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Example use cases
In a presentation on human evolution and society, when discussing our unique position in the animal kingdom.
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