Personal relations are the important thing for ever and ever, and not this outer life of telegrams and anger.
E. M. ForsterRead
Life never gives us what we want at the moment that we consider appropriate.
Interpretation
Life often does not align with our timing or expectations.
This quote by E. M. Forster reflects the reality that life unfolds according to its own timeline, not in accordance with our immediate desires or plans. It emphasizes the unpredictability of life events, suggesting that patience and acceptance are necessary as we wait for our aspirations to materialize.
In practice
During a motivational speech about resilience and patience in pursuing dreams.
Personal relations are the important thing for ever and ever, and not this outer life of telegrams and anger.
A poem is true if it hangs together. Information points to something else. A poem points to nothing but itself.
One must be fond of people and trust them if one is not to make a mess of life.
Oxford is Oxford: not a mere receptacle for youth, like Cambridge. Perhaps it wants its inmates to love it rather than to love one another.
The fact is we can only love what we know personally. And we cannot know much. In public affairs, in the rebuilding of civilization, something less dramatic and emotional is needed, namely tolerance.
One person with passion is better than forty people merely interested.
In the end these things matter most: How well did you love? How fully did you live? How deeply did you let go?
How odd to watch a mortal kindle / Then to dwindle day by day / Knowing their bright souls are tinder / And the wind will have its way
There is just one life for each of us: our own.
At twenty life was like wrestling an octopus. Every moment mattered. At thirty it was a walk in the country. Most of the time your mind was somewhere else. By the time you got to seventy, it was probably like watching snooker on the telly.
Life is too short to drink bad wine.
You can have meaning, accomplishment, engagement and good relationships, even if you are dull on the positive affect side.
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