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It's your life - but only if you make it so. The standards by which you live must be your own standards, your own values, your own convictions in regard to what is right and wrong, what is true and false, what is important and what is trivial. When you adopt the standards and the values of someone else . . . you surrender your own integrity. You become, to the extent of your surrender, less of a human being.
Eleanor Roosevelt
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What this quote means

Your life is defined by your own values and convictions, not by those imposed by others.

Eleanor Roosevelt emphasizes the importance of living life according to one's own values and standards, warning that adopting the beliefs of others can lead to a loss of personal integrity and identity. By surrendering to external influences, one sacrifices their authenticity and diminishes their humanity, urging individuals to take responsibility for defining what is important and meaningful in their own lives.

Themes

LifeValuesIntegrityStandardsAuthenticity

In practice

Example use cases

This quote can be used during a personal development workshop to inspire participants to reflect on their own values.

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