My dear heart, never think you are better than others. Listen to their sorrows with compassion. If you want peace, don't harbor bad thoughts, do not gossip and don't teach what you do not know.
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Listen! Clam up your mouth and be silent like an oyster shell, for that tongue of yours is the enemy of the soul, my friend. When the lips are silent, the heart has a hundred tongues.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote emphasizes the importance of silence and contemplation over speaking mindlessly.
Rumi suggests that our tendency to speak without thought can harm our inner selves, likening the tongue to an enemy of the soul. By advocating for silence, he implies that in moments of quiet, we can access deeper truths and understandings, as silence allows our hearts to communicate more profoundly than words ever could.
Themes
SilenceWisdomSoulCommunicationReflection
In practice
Example use cases
Quote shared during a mindfulness seminar to emphasize the value of listening over speaking.
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