Most writers tend to get worse rather than better. I'm determined to be one that gets better.
Edmund WhiteRead
I longed for literary celebrity even as I saw with my own eyes how little happiness it brought.
Interpretation
The pursuit of fame in literature does not guarantee happiness.
Edmund White reflects on the paradox of desiring literary celebrity while recognizing the emptiness that often accompanies such recognition. This quote suggests that the longing for external validation in the form of fame can lead to an ongoing conflict with personal contentment, emphasizing the idea that true happiness may not stem from societal accolades.
In practice
During a speech at a literary festival, one might quote White to remind aspiring writers about the true source of happiness.
Most writers tend to get worse rather than better. I'm determined to be one that gets better.
I've always seen writing as a way of telling the truth. For me, writing is about truth. I have always tried to be faithful to my own experience.
In a memoir, your main contract with the reader is to tell the truth, no matter how bizarre.
If bigots oppose gay marriage so vehemently, it must be because marriage is a defining institution for them; gays will never be fully accepted until they can marry and adopt, like anyone else.
When we are young... we often experience things in the present with a nostalgia-in-advance, but we seldom guess what we will truly prize years from now.
I was never an assimilationist. I always thought gays had some special mission.
A box without hinges, key, or lid, yet golden treasure inside is hid.
I'm never going to starve myself for a part. I don't want little girls to be like, 'Oh, I want to look like Katniss, so I'm going to skip dinner.' That's something I was really conscious of during training, when you're trying to get your body to look exactly right. I was trying to get my body to look fit and strong-not thin and underfed.
Lord Bacon told Sir Edward Coke when he was boasting, The less you speak of your greatness, the more shall I think of it.
Allow yourself to experience what it is to learn step by step the freedom that comes from being unattached to the outcome, but operating from an empowered heart.
The struggle ends when the gratitude begins. The search is over when the finding starts. And the finding is not a finding at all, but a creating. You cannot find what you have been struggling for, but you can create it. And the jump-start of creation is gratitude.
To complete your daily mental hygiene, observe any part of you that is upset or anxious, and offer that part of yourself the following simple wishes: 'May you be well. May you be happy. May you be free from suffering.' Repeat this until you actually mean it.
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