The novels that attract me most are those that create an illusion of transparency around a knot of human relationships as obscure, cruel, and perverse as possible.
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The lives of individuals of the human race form a constant plot, in which every attempt to isolate one piece of living that has a meaning separate from the rest-for example, the meeting of two people, which will become decisive for both-must bear in mind that each of the two brings with himself a texture of events, environments, other people, and that from the meeting, in turn, other stories will be derived which will break off from their common story.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Human lives are interconnected, and every encounter influences a larger narrative.
This quote by Italo Calvino underscores the idea that individual lives do not exist in isolation but rather as part of a complex web of relationships and experiences. Each interaction between people carries the weight of their own histories and backgrounds, influencing the outcome of their connection and contributing to an ongoing narrative that affects others as well. Thus, every significant meeting is a pivotal event that can lead to new stories branching out from the shared experience.
Themes
ConnectionInterpersonalRelationshipsNarrativeHistory
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about the importance of relationships at a community event.
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