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We have for too long been taught that the sight of a man speaking to himself is a sign of eccentricity or madness; we are no longer at all habituated to our own voices, except in conversation or from within the safety of a shouting crowd.
Teju Cole
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Interpretation

What this quote means

This quote highlights the societal stigma around self-reflection and the value of inner dialogue.

Teju Cole's quote points out the modern discomfort with solitude and self-conversation, asserting that we have been conditioned to view self-talk as irrational rather than a natural part of introspection. It suggests a need to reclaim our ability to engage with our own thoughts and voices, outside the pressures of societal norms and collective noise.

Themes

Self-ReflectionInner DialogueEccentricityMadnessSociety

In practice

Example use cases

During a mental health awareness event, to promote the importance of self-talk.

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