If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Maya AngelouRead
I learned a long time ago the wisest thing I can do is be on my own side, be an advocate for myself and others like me.
Interpretation
Advocating for oneself is essential for personal growth and empowerment.
Maya Angelou emphasizes the importance of self-advocacy in this quote. She suggests that one of the most insightful actions is to support oneself and stand up for one's own needs and rights, as well as to advocate for others who may face similar challenges. This idea underlines the significance of self-awareness and empowerment in navigating life's difficulties.
In practice
During a workshop on personal development, I might share this quote to encourage participants to prioritize their own well-being.
If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
I find it interesting that the meanest life, the poorest existence, is attributed to God's will, but as human beings become more affluent, as their living standard and style begin to ascend the material scale, God descends the scale of responsibility at commensurate speed.
The white American man makes the white American woman maybe not superfluous but just a little kind of decoration. Not really important to turning around the wheels of the state. Well the black American woman has never been able to feel that way. No black American man at any time in our history in the United States has been able to feel that he didn't need that black woman right against him, shoulder to shoulder-in that cotton field, on the auction block, in the ghetto, wherever.
I dreamt we walked together along the shore. We made satisfying small talk and laughed. This morning I found sand in my shoe and a seashell in my pocket. Was I only dreaming?
I know that I'm not the easiest person to live with. The challenge I put on myself is so great that the person I live with feels himself challenged. I bring a lot to bear, and I don't know how not to.
I think Clinton, after getting into office and into Washington, was shocked at being bludgeoned. So he spent time trying to be all things to all people - one way guaranteed not to be successful or respected in a lion's den. You can't just play around with all those big cats - you've got to take somebody on.
Of all the traps and pitfalls in life, self-disesteem is the deadliest, and the hardest to overcome: for it is a pit designed and dug by our own hands, summed up in the phrase, 'It's no use - I can't do it.'
One should never forbid what one lacks the power to prevent.
The more stitches, the less riches.
Man performs and engenders so much more than he can or should have to bear. That's how he finds that he can bear anything.
The state of self-realization, as we call it, is not attaining something new or reaching some goal which is far away, but simply being that which you always are and which you always have been.
Imagination without knowledge may create beautiful things, knowledge without imagination can create only perfect ones.
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