I believe that a lot of our striving after the symbols and levers of success is due to a basic insecurity, a need to prove ourselves. That done, grown up at last, we are free to stop pretending.
Interpretation
The pursuit of success often stems from insecurity and the desire for validation, but true freedom comes from embracing our authentic selves.
In this quote, Charles Handy suggests that many people chase after success and external symbols due to an underlying insecurity or need for validation. He argues that once we acknowledge and accept ourselves, free from the need to prove our worth, we can find true freedom and authenticity, rather than continuing to pretend to be someone we are not in the pursuit of societal success.
In practice
In a motivational speech about personal growth and true success.
The companies that survive longest are the one's that work out what they uniquely can give to the world not just growth or money but their excellence, their respect for others, or their ability to make people happy. Some call those things a soul.
The first step is to measure whatever can easily be measured. This is OK as far as it goes. The second step is to disregard that which can't be easily measured or to give it an arbitrary quantitative value. This is artificial and misleading. The third step is to presume that what can't be measured easily really isn't important. This is blindness. The fourth step is to say that what can't be easily measured really doesn't exist. This is suicide.
Why don't we teach our children in school what they are? We should say to them, 'You are unique... you have the capacity for anything. You are a marvel'.
To learn anything other than the stuff you find in books, you need to be able to experiment, to make mistakes, to accept feedback, and to try again. It doesn't matter whether you are learning to ride a bike or starting a new career, the cycle of experiment, feedback, and new experiment is always there.
We cannot wait for great visions from great people, for they are in short supply. It is up to us to light our own small fires in the darkness.
Creativity needs a bit of untidiness. Make everything too neat and there is no room for experiment.
All companies that grow really big do so in only one way: people recommend the product or service to other people.
What have I got? No looks, no money, no education. Just talent.
The secret to success: find something you love to do so much, you can’t wait for the sun to rise to do it all over again.
In the great undertakings, there is glory, even in failure.
Look at the better players of my era - Jack Nicklaus, Gary Player, Lee Trevino, Raymond Floyd. They had pros they worked with from time to time, but out on Tour, thousands of miles from home, each of them learned to be his own best coach. I think Tiger can do the same.
I think my greatest victory was every time I walked out there, I gave it everything I had. I left everything out there. That's what I'm most proud of. I can't go win Wimbledon anymore, so if what I've done in the past is not good enough, let it go. Because I'm certainly not sitting around thinking about it.
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