Our idea of a real problem is someone else's idea of an ultimate dream. Put the 'problem' in perspective
Tony RobbinsRead
Love is not a business. It's not a transaction. It's not an exchange or something you get for doing something it's not a trade. It's a gift!
Interpretation
Love is a selfless gift rather than a transactional exchange.
In this quote, Tony Robbins emphasizes that love should be viewed not as a series of exchanges or transactions, but as a profound and unconditional gift. He suggests that true love involves giving freely without expectation of receiving something in return, contrasting it with relationships based solely on what each party can gain from one another.
In practice
This quote is perfect for a wedding speech to emphasize the importance of giving in love.
Our idea of a real problem is someone else's idea of an ultimate dream. Put the 'problem' in perspective
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Ah! when will this long weary day have end, And lende me leave to come unto my love? - Epithalamion
Love had always issued out of the places that hurt the most.
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