QuoteProject
Love is never any better than the lover.
Toni Morrison
ShareWTF𝕏

Interpretation

What this quote means

The quality of love reflects the quality of the person giving it.

This quote by Toni Morrison emphasizes that love is inherently linked to the character and depth of the individual who offers it. It suggests that love is not just an emotion but a reflection of one's values, experiences, and personal growth, asserting that true love can only be as profound as the lover's own understanding and capacity for compassion and self-awareness.

Themes

LoveLoverQualityRelationshipCharacter

In practice

Example use cases

This quote can be used to remind friends that true love is about personal growth at a wedding speech.

More from Toni Morrison

There is a certain kind of peace that is not merely the absence of war. It is larger than that. The peace I am thinking of is not at the mercy of history's rule, nor is it a passive surrender to the status quo. The peace I am thinking of is the dance of an open mind when it engages another equally open one -- an activity that occurs most naturally, most often in the reading/writing world we live in. Accessible as it is, this particular kind of peace warrants vigilance.
Toni MorrisonRead
You looking good." "Devil's confusion. He lets me look good long as I feel bad.
Toni MorrisonRead
What do you say? There really are no words for that. There really aren't. Somebody tries to say, 'I'm sorry, I'm so sorry.' People say that to me. There's no language for it. Sorry doesn't do it. I think you should just hug people and mop their floor or something.
Toni MorrisonRead
An innocent man is a sin before God. Inhuman and therefore untrustworthy. No man should live without absorbing the sins of his kind, the foul air of his innocence, even if it did wilt rows of angel trumpets and cause them to fall from their vines.
Toni MorrisonRead
Like friendship, hatred needed more than physical intimacy; it wanted creativity and hard work to sustain itself
Toni MorrisonRead
One of my kids was born in 1968. There were going to be political difficulties, but they were never going to have that level of hatred and contempt that my brothers and my sister and myself were exposed to.
Toni MorrisonRead

Similar quotes

Gentle, soft dream, nestling in my arms now, you will fly, too, as your sisters have all fled before you: but kiss me before you go--embrace me, Jane.
Charlotte BronteRead
In my opinion, the best thing you can do is find a person who loves you for exactly what you are. Good mood, bad mood, ugly, pretty, handsome, what have you, the right person will still think the sun shines out your ass. That's the kind of person that's worth sticking with.
Diablo CodyRead
Although some men who were easy with their words said that it was worth sacrificing one’s life for a night of love with such an arousing woman, the truth was that no one made any effort to do so. Perhaps, not only to attain her but also to conjure away her dangers, all that was needed was a feeling as primitive and as simple as that of love, but that was the only thing that did not occur to anyone.
Gabriel Garcia MarquezRead
And you? Now that I have discovered you? Beautiful, dangerous, unleashed. Still I try to hold you, knowing that your body is faced with knives.
Jeanette WintersonRead
An angel; or, if not,_x000D_ _x000D_ An earthly paragon.
William ShakespeareRead
And even though i act crazy I gotta thank the lord that you made meh.
Tupac ShakurRead

A little wisdom, now and then

Subscribe for the occasional hand-picked quote. No noise.