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Love consists in giving without getting in return; in giving what is not owed, what is not due the other. That's why true love is never based, as associations for utility or pleasure are, on a fair exchange.
Mortimer Adler
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Interpretation

What this quote means

True love is selfless and does not expect anything in return.

Mortimer Adler emphasizes that genuine love is characterized by a selfless attitude where one gives without anticipating reciprocation. Unlike relationships based on mutual benefit, true love stands apart as it is not contingent upon a fair exchange or utility, but rather thrives on the act of giving for the sake of the beloved.

Themes

LoveSelflessnessGivingTrue LoveRelationships

In practice

Example use cases

During a wedding ceremony to highlight the essence of unconditional love.

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