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If a lover is wretched who invokes kisses of which he knows not the flavor, a thousand times more wretched is he who has had a taste of the flavor and then had it denied him.
Italo Calvino
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Interpretation

What this quote means

The quote reflects on the pain of yearning and the deeper sorrow of having experienced love and then losing it.

Italo Calvino highlights the profound sadness that comes from love, suggesting that while those who have never experienced genuine affection suffer, it is those who have tasted love and lost it who endure a much greater sorrow. This quote captures the idea that the memory of love can be a haunting reminder of happiness lost, creating a more intense emotional struggle.

Themes

LoveSorrowYearningLossEmotion

In practice

Example use cases

A speaker at a wedding could quote this to emphasize the value of love and the pain that can accompany it.

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