Reading is the unbelievably healthy way _x000D_ my attention deficit disorder medicates itself. _x000D_ Reading is escape, and the opposite of escape; it's a way to _x000D_ make contact with reality after a day of making things up.
Nora EphronRead
I want to talk to her. I want to have lunch with her. I want her to give me a book she just read and loved. She is my phantom limb, and I just can’t believe I’m here without her.”- on losing her best friend
Interpretation
The quote expresses profound longing and sorrow for the loss of a cherished friendship.
In this quote, Nora Ephron poignantly illustrates the deep emotional connection and sense of loss experienced when a close friend is no longer present. Referring to her best friend as a 'phantom limb' emphasizes the idea that this absence is felt as a part of herself that is missing, highlighting the importance of such relationships in shaping our identities and emotional well-being.
In practice
Sharing this quote at a memorial service to honor a friend's memory.
Reading is the unbelievably healthy way _x000D_ my attention deficit disorder medicates itself. _x000D_ Reading is escape, and the opposite of escape; it's a way to _x000D_ make contact with reality after a day of making things up.
Reading makes me feel I've accomplished something, learned something, become a better person. ... Reading is bliss.
I just want to go on making movies, and some of them will be completely meaningless, except, of course, to me.
Every so often I would look at my women friends who were happily married and didn't cook, and I would always find myself wondering how they did it. Would anyone love me if I couldn't cook? I always thought cooking was part of the package: Step right up, it's Rachel Samstat, she's bright, she's funny and she can cook!
Marriages come and go, but divorce is forever.
What I love about cooking is that after a hard day, there is something comforting about the fact that if you melt butter and add flour and then hot stock, it will get thick! It's a sure thing! It's a sure thing in a world where nothing is sure; it has a mathematical certainty in a world where those of us who long for some kind of certainty are forced to settle for crossword puzzles.
Had it taken her this long to discover that she lacked some simple mental trick that everyone else had, a mechanism so ordinary that no one ever mentioned it, an immediate sensual connection to people and events, and to her own needs and desires? All these years she had lived in isolation within herself and, strangely, from herself, never wanting or daring to look back.
Men are April when they woo, December when they wed. Maids are May when they are maids, but the sky changes when they are wives.
Many families remain for years in the same place, though both husband and wife are sick of it, simply because there is neither complete division nor agreement between them.
Not a word passes between us, not because we have nothing to say, but because we don't have to say anything
Crocodiles are easy. They try to kill and eat you. People are harder. Sometimes they pretend to be your friend first.
It was terrible. All of the things we couldn't share. The room was filled with conversations we weren't having.
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