Male dominance in society always means that out of public sight, in the private, ahistorical world of men with women, men are sexually dominating women.
Interpretation
The quote highlights how male dominance in society often leads to the subjugation of women in private settings.
Andrea Dworkin's quote underscores the relationship between societal structures of male dominance and the sexual domination of women in private spaces. It suggests that the power dynamics prevalent in public life are mirrored in intimate interactions between men and women, revealing deeper issues of gender inequality and control that persist away from the public eye.
In practice
This quote can be used in a discussion on gender roles at a women's rights conference.
Romantic love, in pornography as in life, is the mythic celebration of female negation. For a woman, love is defined as her willingness to submit to her own annihilation.... The proof of love is that she is willing to be destroyed by the one whom she loves, for his sake. For the woman, love is always self-sacrifice, the sacrifice of identity, will, and bodily integrity, in order to fulfill and redeem the masculinity of her lover.
I have been asked, politely and not so politely, why I am myself. This is an accounting any woman will be called on to give if she asserts her will.
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In her heart she is a mourner for those who have not survived. In her soul she is a warrior for those who are now as she was then. In her life she is both celebrant and proof of women's capacity and will to survive, to become, to act, to change self and society. And each year she is stronger and there are more of her.
Being stigmatied by sex is being marked by its meaning in a human life of loneliness and imperfection, where some pain is indelible.
Here's what I hadn't realized: the mother you haven't seen for almost thirty-six years isn't your mother, she's a stranger. Sharing DNA doesn't make you fast friends. This wasn't a joyous reunion. It was just awkward.
Where there are no women there are no good manners
If women will not accept marriage with subjection, nor men proffer it without, there is, there can be, no alternative. The women who will not be ruled must live without marriage. And during this transition period... single women make comfortable and attractive homes for themselves.
Death ends a life, not a relationship.
True forgiveness is when you can say, "Thank you for that experience.
To get a child's trust - you may know or not - is a very hard thing to do. They're so used to not believing adults - because adults tell tales and lies all the time.
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