Male dominance in society always means that out of public sight, in the private, ahistorical world of men with women, men are sexually dominating women.
Andrea DworkinRead
We are born into a world in which sexual possibilities are narrowly circumscribed. . . . We are programmed by the culture as surely as rats are programmed to make the arduous way through the scientist's maze, and that programming operates on every level of choice and action.
Interpretation
Society shapes our choices and actions regarding sexuality, much like how animals are conditioned in experiments.
Andrea Dworkin's quote highlights the significant influence of culture and societal norms on our sexual identities and choices. She compares this societal programming to a scientific experiment, suggesting that, like rats navigating a maze, individuals are guided and constrained by external cultural factors, which limit the scope of sexual possibilities available to them.
In practice
In a lecture on gender studies, this quote can illustrate how societal contexts shape individual experiences.
Male dominance in society always means that out of public sight, in the private, ahistorical world of men with women, men are sexually dominating women.
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