A man always blames the woman who fools him. In the same way he blames the door he walks into in the dark.
Interpretation
Men often shift blame onto women when they are deceived, similar to how they blame objects like doors in the dark.
This quote reflects the tendency of individuals, particularly men, to externalize responsibility for their misfortunes or mistakes. H. L. Mencken draws a parallel between blaming a woman for being fooled and blaming a door in the dark for causing an accident, suggesting that it is easier for individuals to point the finger at others rather than reflect on their own actions or decisions that led to the situation.
In practice
In a discussion about accountability in relationships, I could use this quote to illustrate how people often deflect blame.
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