The true secret of giving advice is, after you have honestly given it, to be perfectly indifferent whether it is taken or not, and never persist in trying to set people right.
Henry Ward BeecherRead
A man who cannot get angry is like a stream that cannot overflow, that is always turbid. Sometimes indignation is as good as a thunderstorm in summer, clearing and cooling the air.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Anger, when expressed appropriately, can have a cleansing effect, much like a thunderstorm clears the air.
In this quote, Henry Ward Beecher suggests that anger is a natural and necessary emotion for humans. He compares a man who cannot express anger to a non-flowing stream, indicating that suppressed emotions can lead to internal turbulence. Just as a thunderstorm refreshes and clears the atmosphere, expressing indignation can cleanse one's spirit and provide clarity in challenging situations.
Themes
AngerEmotionsIndignationCleansingWisdom
In practice
Example use cases
During a team meeting, if someone feels frustrated about an unresolved issue, they might quote this to encourage openness about expressing feelings.
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Every tomorrow has two handles. We can take hold of it with the handle of anxiety or the handle of faith. We should live for the future, and yet should find our life in the fidelities of the present; the last is only the method of the first.
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