A man who cannot get angry is like a stream that cannot overflow, that is always turbid. Sometimes indignation is as good as a thunderstorm in summer, clearing and cooling the air.
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The true secret of giving advice is, after you have honestly given it, to be perfectly indifferent whether it is taken or not, and never persist in trying to set people right.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Giving advice should come without attachment to whether it is accepted or not.
The quote emphasizes the importance of offering advice without attachment to the outcome. It suggests that true wisdom lies not only in giving honest counsel but also in accepting the autonomy of others to make their own choices without persistent attempts to correct them afterward.
Themes
AdviceWisdomIndifferenceAutonomyCounsel
In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech about leadership, one might reference this quote to encourage allowing team members their own decision-making.
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