We must never expect discretion in first love: it is accompanied by such excessive joy that unless the joy is allowed to overflow, it will choke you.
Alexandre DumasRead
When a man resolves to avenge himself, he should first of all tear out the heart from his breast.
Interpretation
The quote suggests that seeking revenge requires overcoming deep emotional attachments.
In this quote, Alexandre Dumas emphasizes the emotional toll of vengeance. He implies that before pursuing revenge, one must detach from their emotions, as feelings of anger and desire for retribution can cloud judgment and lead to negative consequences. The act of 'tearing out the heart' symbolizes the need for emotional detachment and the heavy burden that comes with a quest for revenge.
In practice
During a seminar on emotional intelligence, this quote could illustrate the dangers of letting revenge control one's actions.
We must never expect discretion in first love: it is accompanied by such excessive joy that unless the joy is allowed to overflow, it will choke you.
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I do not often laugh, sir, as you may perceive by the air of my countenance; but nevertheless, I retain the privilege of laughing when I please.
There is neither happiness nor misery in the world; there is only the comparison of one state with another, nothing more. He who has felt the deepest grief is best able to experience supreme happiness.
Those born to wealth, and who have the means of gratifying every wish, know not what is the real happiness of life, just as those who have been tossed on the stormy waters of the ocean on a few frail planks can alone realize the blessings of fair weather.
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Man's actions are the picture book of his creeds.
Everyone believes very easily whatever they fear or desire.
I think I'm learning how to release every day. Recognizing that everything you encounter, touch, or love can become part of you, and in essence never disappears, as long as you can recall it to memory or heart. It's all so connected that we lose everything, but also, we never lose anything.
Contemplation is life itself, fully awake, fully active, and fully aware that it is alive. It is spiritual wonder. It is spontaneous awe at the sacredness of life, of being. It is gratitude for life, for awareness, and for being. It is a vivid realization of the fact that life and being in us proceed from an invisible, transcendent, and infinitely abundant Source.
We look up at the same stars and see such different things." - Jon Snow
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