Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
ConfuciusRead
If a man is respectful he will not be treated with insolence. If he is tolerant he will win the multitude. If he is trustworthy in word his fellow men will entrust him with responsibility. If he is quick he will achieve results.
Interpretation
Respect, tolerance, trustworthiness, and quickness lead to positive interactions and success.
This quote by Confucius emphasizes the importance of personal virtues in achieving success and maintaining healthy relationships. It suggests that by embodying traits such as respect, tolerance, trustworthiness, and efficiency, an individual can foster positive connections with others and earn their trust and admiration, ultimately leading to favorable outcomes in both personal and professional aspects of life.
In practice
Using this quote in a leadership seminar to highlight the importance of personal virtues.
Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
Earnest in practicing the ordinary virtues, and careful in speaking about them, if, in his practice, he has anything defective, the superior man dares not but exert himself; and if, in his words, he has any excess, he dares not allow himself such license.
When you see a good person, think of becoming like her/him. When you see someone not so good, reflect on your own weak points.
Never give a sword to a man who can't dance.
The superior man is distressed by the limitations of his ability; he is not distressed by the fact that men do not recognize the ability that he has.
Success depends upon previous preparation, and without such preparation there is sure to be failure.
I was always looking outside myself for strength and confidence but it comes from within. It is there all the time.
The man who cannot wonder, who does not habitually wonder (and worship), were he President of innumerable Royal Societies, and carried the whole Mecanique Celeste and Hegel's Philosophy, and the epitome of all Laboratories and Observatories with their results, in his single head, is but a Pair of Spectacles behind which there is no Eye. Let those who have Eyes look through him, then he may be useful.
Don't become too narrow. Live fully. Meet all kinds of people. You'll learn something from everyone. Follow what you feel in your heart.
A day of worry is more exhausting than a week of work. Worry upsets our whole system; work keeps it in health and order.
He thinks too much. Such men are dangerous.
When from our better selves we have too long been parted by the hurrying world, and droop. Sick of its business, of its pleasures tired, how gracious, how benign is solitude.
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