Married couples who quarrel bitterly every day may really need each other as deeply as those who appear to be desperately in love.
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By the age of forty, a man is responsible for his face. And his fate.
Interpretation
By the age of forty, individuals should acknowledge that their life choices have shaped who they are.
This quote emphasizes that by the age of forty, a person has likely reached a point where their experiences and choices are reflected in their character and appearance. It implies that one's life decisions directly contribute to their current situation, reinforcing personal accountability and the importance of self-awareness in shaping one's destiny.
In practice
In a motivational speech about personal growth, one can use this quote to emphasize accountability.
Married couples who quarrel bitterly every day may really need each other as deeply as those who appear to be desperately in love.
I love America because it is a confused, chaotic mess - and I hope we can keep it this way for at least another thousand years. The permissive society is the free society.
If it's knowledge and wisdom you want, then seek out the company of those who do real work for an honest purpose.
The earth is real. Only a fool, milking his cow, denies the cow's reality.
I believe in nothing that I cannot touch, kiss, embrace.... The rest is only hearsay.
Why can't we simply borrow what is useful to us from Buddhism, Hinduism, Taoism, especially Zen, as we borrow from Christianity, science, American Indian traditions and world literature in general, including philosophy, and let the rest go hang? Borrow what we need but rely principally upon our own senses, common sense and daily living experience.
Do-so is more important than say-so.
When the mind goes beyond the thought of 'the me,' the experiencer, the observer, the thinker, then there is a possibility of a happiness that is incorruptible.
understanding the true nature of instinctive decision making requires us to be forgiving of those people trapped in circumstances where good judgment is imperiled.
Your future isn't programmed by your past; it's programmed by your thoughts.
The definition of the good life is doing creative things, whether making music, trying to figure out how to do a particular piece of code, or putting together investments.
Your joy is your sorrow unmasked. And the same well from which your laughter rises was oftentimes filled with your tears. And how else can it be? The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain. Is not the cup that holds your wine the very cup that was burned in the potter's oven? And is not the lute that soothes your spirit, the very wood that was hollowed with knives?
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