Married couples who quarrel bitterly every day may really need each other as deeply as those who appear to be desperately in love.
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By the age of forty, a man is responsible for his face. And his fate.
Interpretation
By the age of forty, individuals should acknowledge that their life choices have shaped who they are.
This quote emphasizes that by the age of forty, a person has likely reached a point where their experiences and choices are reflected in their character and appearance. It implies that one's life decisions directly contribute to their current situation, reinforcing personal accountability and the importance of self-awareness in shaping one's destiny.
In practice
In a motivational speech about personal growth, one can use this quote to emphasize accountability.
Married couples who quarrel bitterly every day may really need each other as deeply as those who appear to be desperately in love.
I love America because it is a confused, chaotic mess - and I hope we can keep it this way for at least another thousand years. The permissive society is the free society.
If it's knowledge and wisdom you want, then seek out the company of those who do real work for an honest purpose.
The earth is real. Only a fool, milking his cow, denies the cow's reality.
I believe in nothing that I cannot touch, kiss, embrace.... The rest is only hearsay.
Why can't we simply borrow what is useful to us from Buddhism, Hinduism, Taoism, especially Zen, as we borrow from Christianity, science, American Indian traditions and world literature in general, including philosophy, and let the rest go hang? Borrow what we need but rely principally upon our own senses, common sense and daily living experience.
Either practice restraint or be prepared for crowding
Simple questions can be profound, and answering them requires us to make stark and honest - and sometimes painful - self-assessments.
frustration, complication and misery are available in abundance, but so is God's grace.
I am willing to let go. I release others to experience whatever is meaningful to them, and I am free to create that which is meaningful to me.
Words, for all they were flimsy and invisible, had great strength. They could be fortified as a castle wall and sharp as a foil. They could bite, slap, shock, wound. But unlike deeds, words couldn't really help you. No promise ever rescued a person; it was the carrying-through of it that brought about salvation.
If you're the smartest person you know, it's time to know some new people.
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