There is zero correlation between IQ and emotional empathy... They're controlled by different parts of the brain.
Daniel GolemanRead
When I say manage emotions, I only mean the really distressing, incapacitating emotions. Feeling emotions is what makes life rich. You need your passions.
Interpretation
This quote emphasizes the importance of managing distressing emotions while valuing the richness that all emotions, especially passions, bring to life.
Daniel Goleman highlights the significance of emotions in enhancing the human experience. While it's important to manage overwhelming and incapacitating feelings, embracing and feeling a wide range of emotions is essential for a fulfilling life, as it adds depth and richness to our experiences and passions.
In practice
During a motivational speech about emotional intelligence.
There is zero correlation between IQ and emotional empathy... They're controlled by different parts of the brain.
Empathy represents the foundation skill for all the social competencies important for work.
In a very real sense we have two minds, one that thinks and one that feels
Emotions are contagious. We've all known it experientially. You know after you have a really fun coffee with a friend, you feel good. When you have a rude clerk in a store, you walk away feeling bad.
Companies in the East put a lot more emphasis on human relationships, while those from the West focus on the product, the bottom line. Westerners appear to have more of a need for achievement, while in the East there's more need for affiliation.
What really matters for success, character, happiness and life long achievements is a definite set of emotional skills - your EQ - not just purely cognitive abilities that are measured by conventional IQ tests.
Wisdom, humanity & courage, these three are universal virtues. The way by which they are practiced are one.
Hath any wounded thee with injuries? Meet them with patience. Hasty words rankle the wound; soft language dresses it.
I think you get into trouble as an author and a journalist when, rather than owning the gaps, you try to elide them.
I insist on a lot of time being spent, almost every day, to just sit and think. That is very uncommon in American business. I read and think. So I do more reading and thinking, and make less impulse decisions than most people in business. I do it because I like this kind of life.
I tend to feel if people say they're going to do something, they will, if given the chance.
Discover your divinity, find your unique talent, serve humanity with it.
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