I've always wanted to write a book relating my experiences growing up as a deaf child in Chicago. Contrary to what people might think, it wasn't all about hearing aids and speech classes or frustrations.
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There are many deaf people who couldn't imagine living in a marriage without someone who doesn't speak their language. For me, I believe that hearing or deaf is fine as long as both parties are willing to communicate in each other's language. But if there's no communication, then the marriage, I believe, will be difficult if not doomed.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Effective communication is essential for a successful marriage, regardless of hearing ability.
This quote emphasizes the importance of communication in relationships, particularly in marriage. Marlee Matlin suggests that it is not the ability to hear that matters most, but the willingness of both partners to engage in meaningful dialogue and understand each other. Without communication, the connection between partners can falter, leading to difficulties in the relationship.
Themes
CommunicationMarriageRelationshipsUnderstandingConnection
In practice
Example use cases
In a wedding speech to emphasize the commitment to understanding each other.
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It was ability that mattered, not disability, which is a word I'm not crazy about using.
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The only thing I can't do is hear. I can drive, I have a life with four kids, I work on TV, I do movies, so the deafness question, is it that they want to know because, what? Not sure.
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When I was 11, I knew that I wanted to write a kid's book and tell the world what it was like being deaf.
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