I think it is selfish for me to try to frame Me Too as something that I own. It is bigger than me and bigger than Alyssa Milano. Neither one of us should be centered in this work. This is about survivors.
Tarana BurkeRead
In many regards, Me Too is about survivors talking to survivors.
Interpretation
The Me Too movement emphasizes the importance of solidarity among survivors of sexual violence.
Tarana Burke's quote highlights the significance of sharing experiences among survivors of sexual assault, suggesting that open dialogue can foster healing and community. By connecting with one another, survivors can find mutual support, validate their experiences, and collectively address the pervasive issues of harassment and abuse in society.
In practice
During a panel discussion on sexual violence, I used this quote to emphasize the strength found in survivor solidarity.
I think it is selfish for me to try to frame Me Too as something that I own. It is bigger than me and bigger than Alyssa Milano. Neither one of us should be centered in this work. This is about survivors.
Get up. Stand up. Speak up. Do something.
'Me Too' became the way to succinctly and powerfully connect with other people and give people permission to start their journey to heal.
We want to turn victims into survivors - and survivors into thrivers.
I think that women of color use social media to make our voices heard with or without the amplification of white women. I also think that, many times, when white women want our support, they use an umbrella of 'women supporting women' and forget that they didn't lend the same kind of support.
Men need to help reshape the conversation around consent.
Aren't I enough for you?' she asked. 'No,' he said. 'You are enough for me, as far as a woman is concerned. You are all women to me. But I wanted a man friend, as eternal as you and I are eternal.' (Women in Love)
Introverts are capable of acting like extroverts for the sake of work they consider important, people they love, or anything they value highly.
One of the best hearing aids a man can have is an attentive wife.
Never underestimate the meanness in people's souls... Even when they're being kind... especially when they're being kind.
It's a shame you left without a word, you know. She was just beginning to trust you before that. Before you got angry. Before you ran off. Just like every other man in her life. Lusting after her, full of sweet words, then just walking away. Leaving her alone. Good thing she's used to it by now, isn't it? Otherwise you might have hurt her. Otherwise you just might have broken that poor girl's heart
We have to look and ensure that we're paying attention to what we're doing, so that we don't reflexively institute processes and procedures that exclude people without thought.
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