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I guess this is what marriage is, or was, or could be. You drop the mask. You allow the fatigue in. You lean across and kiss the years because they're the things that matter.
Colum Mccann
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Marriage involves vulnerability and accepting the passage of time together.

In this quote, Colum McCann reflects on the nature of marriage as a journey of intimacy and authenticity, where partners drop their pretenses and embrace the realities of shared life experiences. The 'mask' symbolizes societal expectations and personal defenses that people often wear, and as these are shed, couples become more profoundly connected through their shared joys and struggles over the years.

Themes

MarriageIntimacyVulnerabilityTimeConnection

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Example use cases

This quote would be perfect for a wedding speech highlighting the depth of love between partners.

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