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Before marriage, a girl has to make love to a man to hold him. After marriage, she has to hold him to make love to him.
Marilyn Monroe
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Interpretation

What this quote means

The dynamics of love and intimacy change before and after marriage, indicating the need for different efforts in a relationship.

This quote by Marilyn Monroe highlights the shift in priorities and actions required in a romantic relationship before and after marriage. Before marriage, a woman may feel compelled to passionately engage with a man to capture his attention and affection; however, after marriage, the focus shifts to nurturing and maintaining a deep emotional connection to sustain the intimacy and love between partners.

Themes

MarriageLoveRelationshipsIntimacyCommitment

In practice

Example use cases

Using this quote during a marriage counseling session to highlight the importance of emotional connection.

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