When the sage points at the moon, all that the idiot sees is the finger.
Anthony De MelloRead
The master never seemed to have his fill of gazing at his firstborn child. "What do you want him to be when he grows up?" someone asked. "Outrageously happy," said the master.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The master values his child's happiness above all else.
This quote emphasizes the importance of happiness in life, particularly from a parent's perspective. The master expresses a deep desire for his child's future to be filled with joy, indicating that the ultimate goal in life should be to find satisfaction and fulfillment rather than just success or achievement.
Themes
HappinessParentingJoyLife GoalsFulfillment
In practice
Example use cases
During a parenting workshop, to inspire parents to prioritize their children's happiness.
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