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You may be sure that when a man begins to call himself a realist he is preparing to do something that he is secretly ashamed of doing.
Sydney J. Harris
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Interpretation

What this quote means

This quote suggests that claiming to be a 'realist' often masks a person's guilt or shame about their actions.

Sydney J. Harris highlights the psychological defense mechanisms individuals may employ when justifying actions they lack confidence in. By labeling themselves as 'realists,' people may attempt to rationalize questionable decisions or behaviors, indicating an internal struggle between their ethical standards and their actions.

Themes

RealismShamePsychologySelf-Awareness

In practice

Example use cases

This quote can be used in a discussion about moral dilemmas and personal ethics.

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