We evaluate others with a Godlike justice, but we want them to evaluate us with a Godlike compassion.
Sydney J. HarrisRead
A person is either himself or not himself; is either rooted in his existence or is a fabrication; has either found his humanhood or is still playing with masks and roles and status symbols. And nobody is more aware of this difference (although unconsciously) than a child. Only an authentic person can evoke a good response in the core of the other person; only person is resonant to person.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote emphasizes the importance of authenticity in a person's identity and interactions with others.
In this quote, Sydney J. Harris explores the concept of authenticity, suggesting that individuals face a critical choice between being true to themselves or adopting superficial roles defined by societal expectations. He highlights the idea that children naturally perceive authenticity, which underscores that genuine connections can only be made between true selves, allowing for meaningful interactions and deeper understanding between people.
Themes
AuthenticityIdentitySelfGenuineExistence
In practice
Example use cases
During a motivational speech about self-acceptance and authenticity.
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