Reading is the unbelievably healthy way _x000D_ my attention deficit disorder medicates itself. _x000D_ Reading is escape, and the opposite of escape; it's a way to _x000D_ make contact with reality after a day of making things up.
Maybe young women don't wonder whether they can have it all any longer, but in case any of you are wondering, of course you can have it all. It will be a little messy, but embrace the mess. It will be complicated, but rejoice in the complications. It will not be anything like what you think it will be like, but surprises are good for you. And don't be frightened: you can always change your mind. I know: I've had four careers and three husbands.
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What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the possibility of achieving everything you desire, despite the challenges and unpredictability involved.
Nora Ephron's quote speaks to the modern woman's experience regarding ambition and fulfillment. It acknowledges that while pursuing one's dreams may be chaotic and the outcome may not align with initial expectations, embracing these messy and complicated experiences can lead to personal growth and satisfaction. The message encourages women to be open to change and adventure, stating that it’s okay to shift paths and redefine success throughout their lives.
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Example use cases
In a motivational speech at a women's conference, this quote can inspire attendees to pursue their dreams without fear.
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All quotes →Reading makes me feel I've accomplished something, learned something, become a better person. ... Reading is bliss.
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