The spiritual journey involves going beyond hope and fear, stepping into unknown territory, continually moving forward. The most important aspect of being on the spiritual path may be just to keep moving.
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Meditation takes us just as we are, with our confusion and our sanity. This complete acceptance of ourselves as we are is called maitri, or unconditional friendliness, a simple, direct relationship with the way we are.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Meditation promotes self-acceptance and kindness towards our own state of being.
In this quote, Pema Chodron emphasizes the importance of accepting ourselves in our current state, whether we are confused or clear-minded. This concept, known as maitri or unconditional friendliness, encourages a nurturing and compassionate relationship with our own experiences and emotions, fostering a deeper understanding of ourselves through meditation.
Themes
MeditationSelf-AcceptanceMaitriFriendlinessMindfulness
In practice
Example use cases
In a meditation workshop, this quote could be used to inspire participants to embrace their thoughts and feelings without judgment.
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