A writer's job is to imagine everything so personally that the fiction is as vivid as memories.
John IrvingRead
Just when you begin thinking of yourself as memorable, you run into someone who can't even remember having met you
Interpretation
This quote reflects the humbling nature of human interaction and memory.
John Irving's quote highlights the fleeting nature of recognition and the importance of humility. It suggests that when we start to see ourselves as significant or unforgettable, a sudden encounter with someone who struggles to remember us can remind us of our insignificance in the grand scheme of social interactions and human connections.
In practice
This quote could be used in a motivational speech about humility and the nature of relationships.
A writer's job is to imagine everything so personally that the fiction is as vivid as memories.
No one but me ever put a hand on me to feel that baby. No one wanted to put his ear against it and listen...You shouldn't have a baby if there's no one who wants to feel it kick or listen to it move.
It's not very interesting to establish sympathy for people who, on the surface, are instantly sympathetic. I guess I'm always attracted to people who, if their lives were headlines in a newspaper, you might not be very sympathetic about them.
It is an important distinction to note that she looked not only as if she had taken good care of herself, but that she had good reason to have done so. (...) She looked to be in such total possession of her life that only the most confident men could continue to look at her if she looked back at them. Even in bus stations, she was a woman who was stared at only until she looked back.
I am doomed to remember a boy with a wrecked voice. Not because of his voice, or because he was the smallest person I ever knew, or even because he was the instrument of my mother's death, but because he is the reason I believe in God. I am a Christian because of Owen Meany.
I will tell you what is my overriding perception of the last twenty years: that we are a civilization careening toward a succession of anticlimaxes β toward an infinity of unsatisfying, and disagreeable endings.
The day is made up of 24 hours and an infinite number of moments. We need to be aware of those moments and make the most of them regardless of whether we're busy doing something or contemplating life.
What matters is not the duration of your life, but the donation of it.
Whimsy doesn't care if you are the driver or the passenger; all that matters is that you are on your way.
After adolescence, if one's life is sufficiently interesting, the desire to tell oneself stories diminishes.
I have watched patients stand and gaze longingly toward the city they in all likelihood will never enter again. It means liberty and life; it seems so near, and yet heaven is not further from hell
I donβt want my thoughts to die with me, I want to have done something. Iβm not interested in power, or piles of money. I want to leave something behind. I want to make a positive contribution - know that my life has meaning.
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