Memory is so corrupt that you remember only what you want to; if you want to forget about something, slowly but surely you do.
Interpretation
Memory can be selective, allowing us to remember what we choose and forget what we desire.
This quote by Stefan Zweig highlights the subjective nature of memory, suggesting that our thoughts and recollections are often influenced by our desires and intentions. It implies that we have the power to curate our memories, consciously choosing to focus on certain experiences while letting go of others, which can be both a blessing and a curse in navigating our past.
In practice
In a speech about the implications of trauma, one could quote Zweig to emphasize how individuals choose what to remember.
All my life I have been passionately interested in monomaniacs of any kind, people carried away by a single idea. The more one limits oneself, the closer one is to the infinite; these people, as unworldly as they seem, burrow like termites into their own particular material to construct, in miniature, a strange and utterly individual image of the world.
When they are preparing for war, those who rule by force speak most copiously about peace until they have completed the mobilization process.
Only ambition is fired by the coincidences of success and easy accomplishment but nothing is quite as splendidly uplifting to the heart as the defeat of a human being who battles against the invincible superiority of fate. This is always the most grandiose of all tragedies, one sometimes created by a dramatist but created thousands of times by life.
Now I am discovering the world once more. England has widened my horizon.
In history, the moments during which reason and reconciliation prevail are short and fleeting.
Only the person who has experienced light and darkness, war and peace, rise and fall, only that person has truly experienced life.
It may be that there is no such thing as an equable motion, whereby time may be accurately measured. All motions may be accelerated or retarded, but the true, or equable, progress of absolute time is liable to no change.
The first condition of progress is the removal of censorship.
There is a thing inherent and natural which existed before heaven and earth. Motionless and fathomless, It stands alone and never changes; It pervades everywhere and never becomes exhausted. It may be regarded as the Mother of the Universe. I do not know its name. If I am forced to give It a name, I call it Tao, and I name it as supreme.
Every individual matters and has a role to play in this life on Earth.
We begin from the recognition that all beings cherish happiness and do not want suffering. It then becomes both morally wrong and pragmatically unwise to pursue only one's own happiness oblivious to the feelings and aspirations of all others who surround us as members of the same human family. The wiser course is to think of others when pursuing our own happiness.
Beauty is worse than wine, it intoxicates both the holder and beholder.
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