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Men are always doomed to be duped, not so much by the arts of the other as by their own imagination. They are always wooing goddesses, and marrying mere mortals.
Washington Irving
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Interpretation

What this quote means

People often deceive themselves more than they are deceived by others, mistaking illusions for reality.

This quote by Washington Irving suggests that individuals frequently fall victim to their own fantasies and aspirations, leading them to pursue unattainable ideals instead of accepting the reality around them. It highlights the human tendency to romanticize possibilities, ultimately resulting in disappointment when faced with the ordinary aspects of life.

Themes

IllusionRealityAspirationsDisappointmentSelf-Deception

In practice

Example use cases

In a discussion about the dangers of idealism, this quote can serve as a cautionary reminder.

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