If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Maya AngelouRead
If men are God's gift to women, then God must really love gag gifts.
Interpretation
This quote humorously suggests that while men are often viewed as gifts to women, they can sometimes be more of a comedic surprise than a serious blessing.
Maya Angelou uses humor to critique the notion of men being seen as gifts to women, implying that just as gag gifts bring laughter rather than traditional joy, sometimes the presence of men can evoke a similar sense of amusement rather than admiration. This perspective highlights the complex dynamics in gender relationships with a playful twist.
In practice
Using this quote at a comedy night to highlight gender dynamics humorously.
If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
I find it interesting that the meanest life, the poorest existence, is attributed to God's will, but as human beings become more affluent, as their living standard and style begin to ascend the material scale, God descends the scale of responsibility at commensurate speed.
The white American man makes the white American woman maybe not superfluous but just a little kind of decoration. Not really important to turning around the wheels of the state. Well the black American woman has never been able to feel that way. No black American man at any time in our history in the United States has been able to feel that he didn't need that black woman right against him, shoulder to shoulder-in that cotton field, on the auction block, in the ghetto, wherever.
I dreamt we walked together along the shore. We made satisfying small talk and laughed. This morning I found sand in my shoe and a seashell in my pocket. Was I only dreaming?
I know that I'm not the easiest person to live with. The challenge I put on myself is so great that the person I live with feels himself challenged. I bring a lot to bear, and I don't know how not to.
I think Clinton, after getting into office and into Washington, was shocked at being bludgeoned. So he spent time trying to be all things to all people - one way guaranteed not to be successful or respected in a lion's den. You can't just play around with all those big cats - you've got to take somebody on.
Madame Lily Devalier always asked "Where are you?" in a way that insinuated that there were only two places on earth one could be: New Orleans and somewhere ridiculous.
The greatest comedian I've ever seen is Jack Benny. He wasn't afraid of the silences.
If animals could speak, the dog would be a blundering outspoken fellow; but the cat would have the rare grace of never saying a word too much.
A good laugh makes any interview, or any conversation, so much better.
The only rules comedy can tolerate are those of taste, and the only limitations those of libel.
I had no particular desire to enlighten them, but I had some difficulty in restraining myself from laughing in their faces, so full of stupid importance.
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