Common sense (which, in truth, is very uncommon) is the best sense I know of: abide by it; it will counsel you best.
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Men, as well as women, are much oftener led by their hearts than by their understandings.
Interpretation
What this quote means
People tend to follow their emotions more than their rational thoughts.
This quote by Lord Chesterfield highlights the tendency of human beings to be driven by their emotions and feelings, rather than pure logic or reason. It suggests that decision-making and behavior are often influenced more strongly by what we feel than what we think, emphasizing the power of the heart in guiding our actions and choices in life.
Themes
EmotionDecision-MakingReasonHeartUnderstanding
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about emotional intelligence, one might quote Chesterfield to emphasize the importance of understanding our emotions.
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