The war had made a man of him! It had coarsened him and hardened him. There was no other way to look at it. It had made him reach a point at which he would no longer stand unbearable things.
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Mind, I am not preaching anything contrary to accepted morality. I am not advocating free love in this or any other case. Society must go on, I suppose, and society can only exist if the normal, if the virtuous, and the slightly deceitful flourish, and if the passionate, the headstrong, and the too-truthful are condemned to suicide and madness.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote reflects on the balance between societal norms and individual passion, suggesting that society thrives on a mix of virtue and a controlled expression of truth.
Ford Madox Ford's quote delves into the complex relationship between individual desires and societal expectations. He implies that while society requires adherence to certain moral standards and norms, it simultaneously stifles the passions and authenticity of those who are too truthful or headstrong. In essence, he argues that while society's fabric relies on conventional behavior, it often marginalizes those who cannot conform, leading to internal turmoil and existential struggles.
Themes
SocietyTruthMoralityPassionIndividualNorms
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about the balance between personal freedom and societal norms, this quote can highlight the challenges faced by those who are too honest.
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