The war had made a man of him! It had coarsened him and hardened him. There was no other way to look at it. It had made him reach a point at which he would no longer stand unbearable things.
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You have to wait together - for a week, for a year, for a lifetime, before the final intimate conversation may be attained ... and exhausted. So that ... That in effect was love.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Love is a journey that requires patience and time to develop deep connections.
This quote speaks to the nature of love as a gradual process, emphasizing that meaningful relationships take time to cultivate. The notion of waiting together signifies the mutual investment in a relationship, where shared experiences and conversations build intimacy, leading to a profound understanding of one another over an extended period.
Themes
LovePatienceIntimacyRelationshipsTime
In practice
Example use cases
This quote is perfect for a wedding speech highlighting the journey of love.
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